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Checking out your DNA
Start your meeting with the Sign of the Cross and a prayer

Someone read: (2 Timothy 4-8)

“I have been reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.

For this reason I remind you to fan into a flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline. So do not be ashamed to testify about our Lord.”

For those who may wish to later read the genealogy of Jesus, it can be found in Matthew ch.1 v.1-17

You may wish to play some appropriate music, then read the script

Checking out your DNA May 2009 MM & MTO

During this year of St Paul, we have talked about St Paul’s writings, his legacy of letters. Because the Church authorised his writings as authentic and inspired by the Holy Spirit for the welfare and guidance of all, they are ours. This got me thinking about family legacies and histories. Many parents tell me of their children’s request for family information. Sometimes it is a social studies project of compiling a family tree or a religious lesson wanting to know the denominational history of early family members.

Recently, I was startled by a sentence attributed to a leading church person who said that “Church Archives are the footprints of Christ.” Initially I thought it was a bit romantic describing archives as such and joked to myself imagining Jesus walking through the dust of an archival room and leaving his footprints on the floor. But then the meaning of the comment got through the cobwebs. We can find Christ in our history.

In New Zealand, written family histories are commonplace these days. Hundreds of Kiwis belong to genealogical societies and are involved in delving into archives and libraries in search of their family history - their biological DNA. In NZ, we are blessed with good resources, available either freely or for a small fee.

People in Europe and even the USA express surprise to me when conversation turns to this pastime, saying they would not know where to begin. I expressed a view that we are closer to the founders of our European NZ families. We know when they arrived here, on what ships and where they stepped ashore in the nineteenth century, so it is usually easy to find a place to begin. Maori too have oral traditions linking them to a particular canoe and landing place. On both sides of my family, the Craddock and Forde, family histories have been written, each one beginning with the couple who arrived in Dunedin in the 1860s. An organised colony, Otago kept accurate records of comings and goings. Electoral records, taxes, royalties and custom duties were kept and safely stored in local archives, libraries, Settlers Museums and parish offices. So just as Church archives and parish registers are the footprints of Christ, so civic archives truly can be called family footprints.

A few years ago, a great friend - a member of the Marist Third Order, aged 75 - phoned excitedly: “John, I have found my mother!” Wow! I knew my friend was raised in an orphanage, mainly in the good care of the Sisters of the Missions, to whom he was life-timely grateful. He told me his mother was in her nineties and he had visited her the day before. Within a few hours, he discovered he was related to a hundred other people, many of whom he already knew through professional contacts. These contacts were cemented when, not long after, he attended an uncle’s funeral. It was a revelation to the whole family and a joy to my friend, who died only last year and was mourned by many of these newly found relatives, including his aged mother.

Sometimes I hear of a family buzzing after it has discovered it is connected to important people. For some there is a touch of excitement to be connected by blood or by marriage to a significant family, or to have a family connection to a place name, a sports hero or heroine, or a national celebrity. Hopefully, these important folk can become role models for the next generation, just as, for Catholics, saints can become patron saints, holy helpers and role models in living the Gospel.

The very first Gospel, that of St Matthew, begins with the genealogy of Jesus. Sometimes on the day scheduled for its reading, a well meaning liturgist or priest will skip over some of the awkward names or, to keep it short, will omit it all together in favour of something ‘nicer’ for the occasion. I think that is a mistake. The complete genealogy is important for many reasons, only one or two I can give you here. The triple fourteen generations is just one interesting aspect. Another is the foreign element on the female side, where there are listed Tamar, Rahab and Ruth “being his mother.” Check that out! The genealogy emphasises Jesus’ Israelite descent. It shows how Jesus is connected with the leading recipients of the messianic promises, i.e. with Abraham and David and with the latter’s royal line. If it is good enough for Jesus to have family connections to inspire and place him in history, its good enough for us to preserve, explore and maintain our family links to keep us faithful.

And what about your spiritual history, the inner history you have made and are still making? How did an event or person influence you, alter your awareness, deepen your faith in Christ, firm your commitment to Gospel values and to the place of the Church in your personal life and that of your family? What keeps you energised in faith, hope and love today? What miracles and crosses followed? What were the moments of Grace that enabled you to say “yes” to the Lord, as Mary did? May Mary, who gave birth to Jesus and so is mentioned in his genealogy, who stayed with her Son to the end, be with you also all the way. In this time of Easter season, it can be good to reflect on our family and spiritual history, to be uplifted by and with the Resurrected Christ who ascends to his Heavenly Father’s right hand, and to give thanks for our DNA.

Share your thoughts:

* What do you know of your family’s history in this country and before?

* In what ways has this been significant for you?

* Have you ever thought about your 'Christian family tree' as opposed to your biological one?

* The 150th anniversary event for Wellington Archdiocese included a drama showing the “passing on of the Word” through individuals from the time of Jesus to the present day. How might you see yourself in such a ‘chain’?

* What feelings come when you think about The Message being passed on to you, one person to another, over the course of 2000 years?

* How can you (individually/as a group/as a parish) bring more people into the Christian family?

Prayer Time: For your own intentions and other needs

After your prayers, conclude the meeting with this prayer (on right) together:

Or you may wish to take turns and read one line each.

No. 2 From our Charter – for your reflection this month

From the first moment of conception, God breathes life into a child, making the mother and father partners with Him in creation.

“It was You who created my being; knit me together in my mother’s womb. I thank you for the wonder of my being.” Psalm 139

The ones I love are many coloured

The ones I love are flowers bright

The ones I love are gifts eternal

The ones I love have shared their light

The ones I love are part of me

The ones I love have shared my heart

The ones I love have heard my story

The ones I love have felt my pain

Though I can’t get us all into a sentence

Though I can’t neatly package all they mean

I stand before you Lord and I say “thank you”

Thank you for the gifts of the ones I love.